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Giving a Toast: A How to for Millennias

As we wedding videographer, I watch a lot of toasts.  And I watch them more than once.  I have seen some great toasts, some pretty good toasts and some train wrecks.  Not everyone can have a silver tongue or be gifted with the pen, but if your bestie gets married, there is a good chance you will be called upon to get up and say some words about your friend and their new life mate.  Having seen a lot, I have a few tips for the soon to be center of attention. There you are, asked by your best friend to be their Maid of Honor or Best Man. That comes with a lot of responsibility.  There are parties to organize, a wedding party to wrangle, families to make plans with, and a speech to write.  And to be clear, there are really two parts, a speech and a toast.  The toast, or the part where you give your well wishes to the couple and ask the guests to raise their glasses.  That is like a blessing you are giving and so many times people forget to do it be...